Hi guys!

 I have chosen my very first pick for this week's Advise from Miss Ideal Girl.

And as it is shown in the picture after this is the lucky one who need's an answer to her problem.

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Andy

This is Andy, I met her last week in one of my chilling spot called "Kubo."

Andy and two of her friends interviewed me with some questions because I was been introduced by my another friend named "Paul"

last Tuesday, August 6, 2013. She texted me and asked me for some advise if how should she identify if a person loves her back?

And as I reacted, It's been a rare one and It's been my first time to be asked by that kind of question because I do not get that usually and people like Andy who is in trouble of identifying the true feelings on that person behind her problem is those kind of people I really loved to help because they let me learn more from them, and as I give some of my advises, I discovered as she said that she is a Bisexual and Bisexual people for me are super interesting people because most of them surprises you in different kind of way. I'm curious and that's why I give my best shot to really help her.

Her problem is about "Identity Crisis" as of I can visualize because its not about Andy, Its about her partner who is afraid to be known as Bisexual girl also. Andy is already in the tip of their relationship because her partner are totally afraid for other to discover that the girl is in a relationship with another girl. Andy just can't handle it anymore and she don't know already what to do. so I end up with my conclusion to give her this advises.

" Your partner is in the stage of denial, she is still cheating with others and sugar coating everything just to not make anyone be confused about her gender. She is in the stage where her conscience and consciousness fights. She don't know what to do, she don't know what to follow, her conscience that says let go of what you are and what you feel or her consciousness that is telling her to stop bragging about everything and just keep it inside her. She's still afraid to tell others what she really are, she is still afraid of rejection and discrimination that she might get if she say it out loud that she's a bisexual. 

Andy, here is what you should do.

You know her more than me, you know her more than her friends. Make her believe that loving you is not a competition to be prepared of, make her believe that loving you is worth dying for and make her believe that loving you is acceptance of who she really is. Love her so much that will make her feel protected, love her so much that will make her feel that you are enough more than anyone, Fill those emptiness in her. Fill those emptiness where the fear began. Don't let her fight the fear, alone. show her that loving you is not just another battle for her to prove that being bisexual person is another big mistake in her life. Make her proud. Make her smile, because if you do everything that I say and followed it. Trust me, this relationship has a long run to do.