This is one of those nights where I wish a part of that never happens.

Today is my Baby's birthday. JC! And Earlier today I posted a photo of us with a caption,

"Baby, Happy Happy Birthday to you. I wish you Happiness and joy. I hope you enjoy your day! I'm happy for you. I'm sorry if I never make it yesterday but I will make sure to come tonight for your birthday celebration. I love you, Thank you for everything, stay humble and handsome. God bless you!"

Now, as I woke up, I also remember how devastating the commotion was. Okay, The easiest way for you to understand is to tell you the whole story but to make it short. I'll just gonna start to where the fight started.

As we go back to Lakay Billiards from Sherwood, they arrived first so they talked to management already and make them fix a length of table were we all can sit comfortable. As everyone started arriving because we all never come as one, some of us arrives first and some arrives last. By the time of the last arrival which was my Mine (Mackiss) the tension started.

Baby started to feel unhappy, he started being in silence then suddenly the shouting comes in. Baby started shouting to Charles who is also our friend, then he suddenly pushed Charles and started walking out, I run after him and asked him question, why? What happened? and he was like hiding something to me that is completely obvious cuz he's not okay so I started worrying. 

I asked him to comeback inside with me but he said he will never gonna comeback inside cuz he already pushes one of our friends and it will look so awkward coming but and he added that he'll just gonna go home and take some rest. He make me go back inside and he go home as well.

At that moment, I told my friends he will never gonna comeback and I also said everything he said to me.

While in the middle of drinking, he suddenly appears with a cup of coffee then he unexpectedly throw that hot coffee to Nixon's face (another friend of us) dripping down to his body. He also slapped Nixon on his face and quoted "Ang Cheap mo!" (You're so Cheap!) at that moment I knew something would happened.

And boom! Nixon stands up, run after JC and they started the fight. BUT! I never wanted that to happened so I stop them first, holding the chair that Nixon is about to hit JC with and the management was also terrified so they call JC and Nixon in.

After settling things up, The management says "If you want to talk, then talk outside but in a good way. Violence are not allowed here!" 

by then, Nixon went out immediately, I run after him. Hugging him and begging not to do anything stupid anymore but just like other boys will do, he'll gonna talk to the other guy about the problem. Knowing that it won't gonna be settle that way, I stand in the middle for anytime someone will punch someone.

And as I expected, things happened that way. Nixon first kicked JC in his stomach making him to hit the wall so hard that makes the wall dented. I wanted to panic that time but I also have to make them far from each other so I keep on restraining both of them. 

(BTW, Nixon is like 5"11' and JC is like 5"6' but I'm not sure tho.)

I'm surprise to the fact that no one helps me on restraining them, everyone just watched them fight while I struggle so hard making a hole for them. 

In the end, just like other fights. I stopped them, I toned up my voice for a short period of time just to make sure they both can hear what I say.

Nixon hugged me after knowing he punched me twice. one in my left eye and one in my left chin while JC were being taken in the nearest fast food so he can rest cuz he got some knee scars and a bruises on his face while Nixon has a swollen hands and a bruise in her right eye.

I wanted to cry but I can't. I have to be strong for them to listen to me. That's all.

There's a lot of thing you should know about, when it comes of the risk you might doing in the first date. No one wants to look embarrassing in the first date but how would you know, what and what's not to do in first date. Here is the solution.

1. NEVER TALK SO MUCH BUT ONLY TALK TOO MUCH.

- Talking SO much has a difference with talking TOO much. Too much is something you can define as talking continuously much more than your date say and So much is something you can define as the only one who speaks the whole time you were together, you don't give time to let your date finish his response to your question and easily moving on from it because you still have many to say.

2. NEVER INITIATE. IN ANY TERMS!

- This one mostly appropriate for girls only because guys have big ego that makes them not to let you pay for anything. But in return for being gentleman and this is generally only for the gents, never initiate to kiss your date first. Let them do the goodbye kiss and rest assured that you'll be happy about what's gonna happen next because 45% chances that a first date if its a match, ends up with a casual hook up or one night stand.

3. NEVER BE CLINGY TO YOUR DATE.

- Being clingy is cute, especially when you're live in with your partner or you're in a long time relationship already, but! Being clingy in your first date is probably the most awkward thing to do. Imagine being held in your waist by a complete stranger, being kissed in the cheeks and holding hands. No one wants to think that their date are a psycho and you don't want to act like one, do you?!

4. NEVER INVADE PERSONAL SPACE

- Maybe in some time that you both already sat on the table while waiting for your order or something. your date might now want you invading their personal space. Like moving your chair near to them or moving your face towards them too much that make them feel attack. No one wants to be invaded especially by a stranger, you both were still in the stage of getting to know each other and no one can tell if your date is already trusting you or not.

5. NEVER PLAY WITH EXPRESSIONS OR FACES YOU MOSTLY LIKE TO DO.

- People intend to create their own shortcuts when talking to someone just to impress them and so as doing different types of facial expressions but those things are not likable for a first date. It looks embarrassing and awful at the same time because your date is not yet into it. They might get offended somehow if you does things in front of them for the first time. 

I hope this helps!

Friends for me are a natural treasure that you can't easily find. You have to earn each before they treat you as a friend in return. I don't believe in first sight when it comes from friendship. You cannot say that immediately after one whole day of hanging out together. It takes time before you consider someone as a friend. 

Maybe you can only call them as an acquaintance for knowing them but never as a friend. I have many acquaintances but I have more friends. Yes! In many forms. Meaning, Real friends, Old friends, New friends, Childhood friends, school friends, friends of a friends and even Fake friends but I never ignore one of them as long as we both are in good term.

Yesterday, I'm with 6 of my friends, namely Rica, Candy, Kadesha, Roden, Ben and Ash. We're living the good life and we're taking advantage of the time given to each and everyone of us and making the best out of it. We never spoil any single seconds, Although many times we struggle about some situations we still make it to be happy all through the night and I'm happy about the outcome.

I love my friends. I will always see them not just as a daily routine of my life but as one of my priorities. I thank God for giving me the best pile of friends ever.