When my room is finished in it's renovation, I'll be putting some of this in a bigger version because if not, I'll be doing it for maybe a 2 and a half day or a complete 3 days in a row by just dotting all over my room.
Yehay! My Photoshoot for BNTM or Benignian's Next Top Model just got launch since yesterday, It's cool isn't?
Are you in a relationship and wonder "Does he love me?" This question can drive you
wild if you love this guy and could really see yourself spending the rest of
your life with him. Not knowing whether
or not he feels the same way about you can lead to a lot of anxiety and sleepless nights.
What should you absolutely NOT do? Do
not ask him flat out if he loves you.
Why? Because guys don't think like we
do and this question will scare him to death. It may also be the end of your
relationship with him.
You don't need to drive yourself
crazy wondering, does he love me. There are some
common clues that you can look for to determine how committed he is to you
without having to ask him point blank.
First, let's talk about what makes
guys fall in love and it's not what you might think. Many women mistakenly think that just because they have chemistry with a
guy, a lot of things in common and a crazy attraction that this equals love. But, it doesn't.
He may see you as someone to have fun with but not as a long term relationship
kind of woman.
A guy will fall in love with a woman
that he feels is an extension of who he is. Most men adore their mothers and
they tend to unconsciously look for women that have traits in common with her.
A woman that has similar life goals is going to be the one he ends up being
with.
So, does he love you? If he does the
following things, he definitely does.
1. Does he fix things for you?
Men are fixers but they don't want to
get too involved if you are just a casual thing for him. It's a great sign if
he is always fixing things for you. If he is crazy about you, he won't be able
to stand seeing you frustrated or unhappy.
2. Does he use "we" when
talking about the future.
If he is committed to you, he will
use the word "we" frequently with regards to future plans or
possibilities. For example: "Maybe we will have a son like that one
day."
3. Has he introduced you to his
family yet?
If so, that is huge sign that he
loves you. There is a lot of pressure involved with taking a woman to meet his
family and he will not do that unless he loves you.
These are three signs that he loves
you. A guy in a casual relationship will not bother to fix things for you, use
the word "we" when making plan and he certainly won't introduce you
to his family. These are all signs of a guy who is committed and in love with
you.
If he isn't doing these things, don't worry. Maybe it is just too soon
in the relationship or maybe you are pushing too hard. Do not panic and try to
make him feel close to you. The more desperate you are, the worse you will make
the situation. Guys can sense these feelings and will pull away from you.
I realize, It's been a year after I created this blog and now it is still standing though I don't put any updates about the reason why I create this, but I let this blog alive so he could know that my love for him is not yet passing through because I still love him..
Shuta lang kagabi ang Moment!
Grabe, Eto huh. Quick post lang to, pero epic.
Can you imagine, Pababa ako ng Bus when this random guy sa harap ko, bigla nagpa-slant sa harap ko, yung medyo patuwad tapos etong kasama nya super maka gitgit sakin, yun pala NANAKAWAN AKO! Yung nasa likod ko kinukuha na yung phone ko sa bulsa, buti nalang mabilis ako makaramdam kaya hinawakan ko yung phone ko at sabay tulak sa lalaki sa harapan ko at dali-daling bumaba.
Tae >.< As in, hindi ko expected yun pero pucha, most Unforgettable moment ko yung for this Month.
DAMN, But anyways. I am thankful dahil buhay ako. Thank you papa God :*
I'm tough, ambitious and I know Exactly what I want for my life. If that makes me a bitch, so be it!
Grabe kahapon. As in before we start the photoshoot and we're just heading into our spot I got this random guy in his car stopped in our front, take the car window down and honk on his horn. I was so shocked nung ginawa nya yun. It was like "Hey you want a ride?" but in a public place which is not appropriate to occur because I look like a bitch. Then after that, We started shoot while walking, then as we go on, we reached our shooting spot then we started shooting. Then we changed location, tapos nung nag venue kami dun sa parang maze na halaman, We see this 3 guy watching us and whistling among us. I got scared. We got scared and that's why we decided to take off and look for another spot. Then while walking, we take a few shots under a street light then a motor cycle pass on us AGAIN, honking his horn and looking at us. Then I was like, "What the fuck with boys today" and then my friend which is our make up artist starts teasing me "HOOKER! HOOKER!" ..
Yeah, I admit it, I look like a bitch last night but I'm not.
Then after that, we decided to go home. At the same spot, I got this one man inside his car hit his horn and shout "HI ATE" tapos nung sinigaw nya yun, nagulat ako. Hindi ko expected na makakuha ng mga ganung klaseng publicity na napapansin ako ng boys in a way na bubusina sila to get my attention. #DAFUQ?
But then again. I am happy to go home alive.
I'll be stating the next thing happened to me while i'm on my way home in my next post.
So here are six ways to be nice to your partner. It won't necessarily salvage a marriage in its death throes, but it will go a long way to nurture, heal, or repair a relationship that still has a chance.
- Good manners
"please" and "thank you" are just as necessary between adults as between children and adults; and good manners don't become irrelevant just because the relationship is an intimate or long-standing one. Courtesy demonstrates consideration and is a lubricant for all interpersonal interactions. The absence of good manners is often a statement of its own about a lack of caring for the other person.
"please" and "thank you" are just as necessary between adults as between children and adults; and good manners don't become irrelevant just because the relationship is an intimate or long-standing one. Courtesy demonstrates consideration and is a lubricant for all interpersonal interactions. The absence of good manners is often a statement of its own about a lack of caring for the other person.
- Spontaneous simple affection
a touch on the back, a soft stroke of the hair, a hand resting on an arm, hand-holding when walking together, a kiss on the forehead when passing by. These simple gestures carry a powerful message of caring and connection. This is not to be confused with sexual overtures, which are a whole different category from being nice. When sexual overtures are the only gestures of affection, partners often reject them out of hand. Partners generally need to be treated nicely and with affection before they can be responsive sexually.
a touch on the back, a soft stroke of the hair, a hand resting on an arm, hand-holding when walking together, a kiss on the forehead when passing by. These simple gestures carry a powerful message of caring and connection. This is not to be confused with sexual overtures, which are a whole different category from being nice. When sexual overtures are the only gestures of affection, partners often reject them out of hand. Partners generally need to be treated nicely and with affection before they can be responsive sexually.
- Thoughtful gestures
"can I get you anything while I'm up?'; "I made you a cup of tea" (especially when brought to the recipient in another room or part of the house); bringing something favored home from the grocery store ("Look, they had those apples you like so much!"). "Thoughtful" carries the clear implication that one partner was thinking, with kindness, of the other.
"can I get you anything while I'm up?'; "I made you a cup of tea" (especially when brought to the recipient in another room or part of the house); bringing something favored home from the grocery store ("Look, they had those apples you like so much!"). "Thoughtful" carries the clear implication that one partner was thinking, with kindness, of the other.
- Noticing and addressing emotional states - directing your
attention to your partner with the intention of assessing how s/he is
feeling, and then expressing what you've observed - "You look tired,
honey," or "You seem really excited about this project." Noticing
carries the message that one partner is significant to the other. This
one leads us directly to the next tip à
- Inquiry - either to make an assessment or to pursue one, ask
your partner questions. "So, tell me about this new project." Or "How
are you doing with this new work schedule?" Receiving an inquiry from
someone who matters to you is experienced as very positive. An inquiry
carries the implicit message that you were not only noticed but also
cared about.
- Being considerate
be as considerate of this person whom you've known intimately and at length as you would be of a relative stranger or a guest. Don't bang around late at night when your partner/guest is trying to sleep; make sure there's milk for the morning coffee; don't hog the remote control; don't interrupt when someone else is talking; etc.
be as considerate of this person whom you've known intimately and at length as you would be of a relative stranger or a guest. Don't bang around late at night when your partner/guest is trying to sleep; make sure there's milk for the morning coffee; don't hog the remote control; don't interrupt when someone else is talking; etc.
Now, some general reminders and guidance -- these tips apply equally to male and female partners.
In our culture we often think of these demonstrations of niceness as
being particularly suitable to be received by women. Recent research has
clearly demonstrated that men who are the recipients of these kind and
thoughtful gestures from their partners are happier in their
relationships.
Similarly, we think of women typically as being the nurturers in a relationship, but they also need to be the recipients of thoughtful gestures. Niceness needs to happen and to go both ways.
Similarly, we think of women typically as being the nurturers in a relationship, but they also need to be the recipients of thoughtful gestures. Niceness needs to happen and to go both ways.
I hate it because I don't get any chances to have a picture of myself back that time that I'm about to be an Aerobic Instructor for my group.
Grabe ang intense ng kaba ko that time, I was about to pass out nga eh kasi kinakabahan ako. My tummy already having a zoo wrecking and I'm about to rigor myself to die.
But anyway. When it started, It was a little awkward at first. We even have to tried it for the second time kasi nung first start namin, para kaming mga adik na walang ginawa kung hindi maghantayan.
Then after that first try we repeat it from the top and on the second time the happiness started because it was getting fun and haha. I enjoyed it and as of I know my blockmates enjoyed it, and I even make my teacher laugh even though she is not in the mood to have enjoyment that time. Then the time goes by after finishing the work out we started the aerobic and it gets more intense because some step is I mistakenly forgotten and I'm about to freak out on what will going to do next but then again, I know how to handle situation and so, that's why I find a way in to grab every little freaking monkey on my mind and that's why we finish our aerobic successfully.
