Does He Love Me - 3 Important Signs He Loves You
Are you in a relationship and wonder "Does he love me?" This question can drive you
wild if you love this guy and could really see yourself spending the rest of
your life with him. Not knowing whether
or not he feels the same way about you can lead to a lot of anxiety and sleepless nights.
What should you absolutely NOT do? Do
not ask him flat out if he loves you.
Why? Because guys don't think like we
do and this question will scare him to death. It may also be the end of your
relationship with him.
You don't need to drive yourself
crazy wondering, does he love me. There are some
common clues that you can look for to determine how committed he is to you
without having to ask him point blank.
First, let's talk about what makes
guys fall in love and it's not what you might think. Many women mistakenly think that just because they have chemistry with a
guy, a lot of things in common and a crazy attraction that this equals love. But, it doesn't.
He may see you as someone to have fun with but not as a long term relationship
kind of woman.
A guy will fall in love with a woman
that he feels is an extension of who he is. Most men adore their mothers and
they tend to unconsciously look for women that have traits in common with her.
A woman that has similar life goals is going to be the one he ends up being
with.
So, does he love you? If he does the
following things, he definitely does.
1. Does he fix things for you?
Men are fixers but they don't want to
get too involved if you are just a casual thing for him. It's a great sign if
he is always fixing things for you. If he is crazy about you, he won't be able
to stand seeing you frustrated or unhappy.
2. Does he use "we" when
talking about the future.
If he is committed to you, he will
use the word "we" frequently with regards to future plans or
possibilities. For example: "Maybe we will have a son like that one
day."
3. Has he introduced you to his
family yet?
If so, that is huge sign that he
loves you. There is a lot of pressure involved with taking a woman to meet his
family and he will not do that unless he loves you.
These are three signs that he loves
you. A guy in a casual relationship will not bother to fix things for you, use
the word "we" when making plan and he certainly won't introduce you
to his family. These are all signs of a guy who is committed and in love with
you.
If he isn't doing these things, don't worry. Maybe it is just too soon
in the relationship or maybe you are pushing too hard. Do not panic and try to
make him feel close to you. The more desperate you are, the worse you will make
the situation. Guys can sense these feelings and will pull away from you.
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